I watched the extended
video of Ray Rice knocking his then fiance out cold, Monday, like most people,
disgusted and shocked. Not that the initial video of him dragging his now
wife Janay’s lifeless body from the elevator left much doubt as to what happened,
but seeing exactly what did was nauseating.
Ray Rice is a
coward. He likely will never play in the NFL again. The incident
also has left a black eye on the league where he was once one of its promising,
young stars.
Commissioner Roger Goodell has proven utter incompetence
with his weak, initial two game suspension of Rice and ill pursuit of the full
video; and the Ravens organization appears to be equally inept in its lack of
due diligence investigating one of its franchise’s best players.
Rice, Goodell, and the
Ravens all dropped the ball. If there was a playbook on exactly how not
to handle the situation, each could author a new chapter.
But, as a fan and a
man, it doesn't take much guts to say Ray Rice is spineless. It doesn’t
take guts to say Roger Goodell should be fired. Both are obvious.
Those are just
words. Having guts requires action.
If NFL fans, myself
included, are so appalled at how the league responded to a woman being beaten
by a man whose body is trained to be weapon then we need to act.
I love football as
much as anyone. Just this weekend, I almost threw a childlike fit in front
of my fiancé and soon-to-be sister in law because Chicago traffic was delaying
me from seeing the first two minutes of the Michigan State v. Oregon
game. I literally missed two minutes of a 60 minute game and you would
have thought I was racing to the hospital to see the birth of my first
child. Nope, just wanted to make sure I heard Gus Johnson call a play
action completion for six yards. Mature.
Sadly, I am not alone
in my football obsession. Weekends in America are centered around
kickoffs. Weekdays are centered on setting fantasy lineups. The
average team is worth $1.43 billion. The NFL is a monster and it knows
its power.
Tweeting and ranting
and raving about how bad the NFL and Rice messed up is like a bee stinging an
elephant. It may cause temporary discomfort, but it won’t take long
before the elephant is back to normal.
Every NFL fan has a
mother, wife, sister, or girlfriend. A large percentage of fans are
women, many of whom I’m sure have been victims of abuse in one way or another.
To really send the NFL
a message that fans are disgusted with the league’s outlook on women,
specifically domestic violence, the NFL needs to get hit where it hurts - the pockets.
As long as a ratings
continue to soar and the money keeps rolling in, Roger Goodell will likely have
a job. He reports to the NFL’s 32 owners
and if they can give him a little slap on the wrist, but keep the checks
flowing, please believe Goodell isn’t going anywhere.
We need to walk
away. Maybe it’s a week, maybe it’s two,
maybe it’s the season, but if NFL fans truly want to express anger toward how
the NFL handled the brutal beating of a woman, we need to walk away.
When the league sees ratings, jersey sales, and overall revenue drop, changes will be made and the NFL will have no choice but to listen to its customers. It will serve as the perfect platform to say 'your organization has a problem with how it views and treats women, here's what you can do to change it.'
The League has been
criticized for not being leaders or proactive in speaking up and acting against
domestic violence.
But, fans have a chance
to send the loudest message and
respond in a way the NFL hasn’t.
Walk away from a
league whose leadership has proven it doesn't value women. Not only Ray Rice, but players like T.J Ward,
Greg Hardy, Ray McDonald, and Darly Washington have also abused or acted violently toward women
and are still on the field while making millions of dollars a year.
Not everyone in the
NFL is a misogynist or abuser. In fact, the percentage of those who are is quite minute. But, after watching the gruesome video and
seeing the flaccid response by the league's "leadership" to get to the bottom of what happened
and act appropriately, there needs to be a drastic change.
It takes guts to stand
up to someone you love. Love is a hard
thing to walk away from. I love the
NFL. America loves the NFL.
But, the health and well-being
of women trumps any game, touchdown, or superstar.
It’s time for fans to show we have the guts the NFL's "leaders" have proven they don't have.
It's time to walk away
from the NFL until Roger Goodell is gone and the league proves it cares
about not just its on field product, but also what is happening off of it.
